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Money Between Us

A couple discussing money and household bills
A guided decision experience for couples to examine how money history, financial facts, obligations, expectations, and tradeoffs may shape their life together.

What’s included

Short video lessons

Seven videos, including a series welcome, course orientation, four focused lessons, and a closing. English captions are available.

Five guided worksheets

Reflect on your money history, relevant financial information, debt, commitments, and the questions still to resolve.

Decisions worth examining

Distinguish what you know from what you assume, and identify what needs a conversation or verification.

Your own pace

Work through the course individually and use what surfaces to prepare for thoughtful conversations. A partner does not need to enroll.
01

Series Welcome

Meet your guide and understand the purpose of the WHAT’S NOT TAUGHT Family Decisions Series.

02

How to Use Money Between Us

Learn how to move through the course, use the activities, and approach the conversations thoughtfully.

03

Your Money Story Is Already in the Room

Examine how family history and past experiences have shaped what money means to you.

04

What Do I Need to Know?

Identify the financial facts each partner needs in order to make informed shared decisions.

05

Debt Has Facts, History, and Expectations

Understand the facts, experiences, and expectations surrounding each partner’s debt.

06

What Could Become My Responsibility?

Examine the commitments, obligations, and financial exposure that may affect your shared household.

07

Decision Lab and Final Reflection

Bring the course conversations together, identify unknowns, and decide what requires verification, discussion, or professional guidance.

08

Series Closing

Reflect on what surfaced and identify the next conversations, decisions, and professional consultations your household needs.

Meet your instructor
Jay is the founder of What’s Not Taught and a corporate attorney whose work explores family governance, shared decisions, and the responsibilities people take on together. The Family Decisions Series brings practical questions and guided reflection to the conversations that shape a household.
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